GET OFF OF REDDIT AND DO THAT BEFORE COMING BACK HERE ANSWERING COMMENTS, OR DOING LITERALLY ANYTHING ELSE. Your parents almost certainly have your social security number and have other info they'd need to fraudulently take a loan out in your name. ... Regardless, $75+gas to the court house would eliminate 90% of the …Taking something like the dress, decorations, flowers etc that are a big part of the wedding seems like it would be easy to prove damages. Like the dresses are "only" $5k but we spent $50k on the whole wedding. They probably wouldn't owe $50k but I'm sure lawyers could figure out a number. 15.Time for OP to change his number and surround himself only with people who love him rather than use him. No need for guilt OP, it was made very clear to you that you weren't family as far as any of them are concerned. They wouldn't even be contacting you now if it weren't for their mom getting sick (I say their because bAita for refusing to attend an apology dinner after my mother in law called me a bad mother at my son's funeral? I lost my son to congenital heart disease and he did not survive the open heart surgery at the age of 1 year and 6 months.Posted originally on March 8 2022. AITA if I press charges against my neighbor for breaking and entering? This is crazy but just happened this past weekend. I (m45) was alone and taking a nap for a couple hours upstairs and came down about 4pm. I walk down and see a man walking out of my front door!r/AmItheAsshole, abbreviated as AITA or AITAH, is a subreddit where users post about their real-world interpersonal conflicts and receive judgement from fellow redditors. Some posts, such as the December 2021 thread about an orange tabby named Jorts, are shared on other social media platforms besides Reddit.We always need US overnight time mods. Currently, we could also definitely benefit for mods active during peak "bored at work" hours, i.e. US morning to mid-afternoon. You need to be able to mostly mod from a PC. Mobile mood tools are improving and trickling in, but not quite there yet. You need to be at least 18.AITA for refusing to bend the rules on seeing my newborn just for one person (sil) even it the only chance she's has to see him for months So I (34f) gave birth on Christmas Day before my sons birth and to lessen visits. We (my husband 28m) made a list in October and sent it out to everyoneWhen I asked who is going to work less, my friend said they're going to hire a live-in nanny to take care of their child while they work all day. They make around $200k-$250k a year together, and could easily spend less time working given how much money they have saved. When I asked how much time they expected to spend with their child, he said ...Our son is 22 and our daughter is 26. She bought a house in July. We know that moving into a new home always comes with unexpected costs, right after you've probably depleted most of your funds. So, for Christmas we gave her $4000. Our son we gave a few different gifts totaling somewhere around $800.It’s sad that your grandparents weren’t able to open up their hearts to your brother. Your parents OTOH sound like warm wonderful people. It’s too bad your Dad’s parents can’t be proud of him for being the kind of man who’s willing to step up and be a loving father to a child who needed one. 55. AITA for not watching kids at a cookout and leaving them unsupervised. I (27m) was at a backyard cookout with some friends and coworkers. So the ages were late 20s to early 40s. It was a family friendly event so people brought their kids. They were playing in the yard while most of the adults hung out on the backyard deck.AITA for “perpetuating ethnic stereotypes” about Jorts? [EDITED TO ADD:]This post is about 2 cats who are named Jean and Jorts, cat tax HERE : UPDATE is here. THE STORY We have two workplace cats in one area of our worksite. They add value to the worksite, we all love the cats and the worksite cat presence is not the issue. So AITA for taking her wallet and bringing it to the restaurant? Edit: Wow, thanks for all the awards!!! Jeez lol! So many comments that I can’t keep up, but thank you to everyone who had something to say. Edit 2: Amy just called me, she saw this post and she yelled at me for "badmouthing" her on the internet. Honestly I don't care. Right, OP is very NTA, but what I don't understand is that OP sis, the mom, OP BIL, the dad (obviously he didn't), or even granny, the mil, none of them told the 15M that ordering a meal with price like that, when the host was not even ordering that much, was just plain rude and needed some re-education about dining etiquette as a guest.Reddit iOS Reddit Android Reddit Premium About Reddit Advertise Blog Careers Press. ... r/AmItheAsshole • by Illustrious_Fig5484. AITA for asking my parents for their entire estate if they want me to be my sister's guardian. I (F23) have been told my entire life that if anything happens to my parents I will be my sister's guardian. She is 33 ...Posted originally on March 8 2022. AITA if I press charges against my neighbor for breaking and entering? This is crazy but just happened this past weekend. I (m45) was alone and …A newly postpartum mom (congratulations!) joined the "Am I The A—hole? (AITA?)" subreddit to find out if she was wrong for yelling at her father-in-law who was part of the aforementioned ...Yeah, reddit is where bad relationships come to die. They've been a few notable AITA posts that were disagreements between 2 reasonable, loving people, but a whole bunch of them are toxic people getting pissed that there's pushback for their shitty behavior.Posted originally on March 8 2022. AITA if I press charges against my neighbor for breaking and entering? This is crazy but just happened this past weekend. I (m45) was alone and taking a nap for a couple hours upstairs and came down about 4pm. I walk down and see a man walking out of my front door! A cautionary tale for your daughter. A young friend of mine worked full time, hubs stayed home doing much the same as your SIL. Twice the kids, 5 & 3, got out of the house while he was sleeping and were found wandering ~1 mile from home. He left and moved in with his parents and she scrambled to find daycare.Book your break, ignore the whinging and whatever sulk he’ll bring up and enjoy your break - you’ll need a few days to unwind, then you need to lay down the law because he’s a lazy dad and partner. Zrina94 • 1 hr. ago. NTA. I think it's entirely reasonable to want some time alone and where you can do whatever you want.Here at Lifehacker, we are endlessly inundated with tips for how to live a more optimized life—but not all tips are created equal. The best ones are the ones that stick; here are the tips with the greatest longevity, according to Reddit. He...r/AmItheAsshole, abbreviated as AITA or AITAH, is a subreddit where users post about their real-world interpersonal conflicts and receive judgement from fellow redditors. Some posts, such as the December 2021 thread about an orange tabby named Jorts, are shared on other social media platforms besides Reddit.A few weeks ago my friend Alice (22F) came to my door with her daughter Milly (3F) and told me she really needs me. Apparently she had an emergency to attend to and she needed an urgent sitter. She didn’t really ask and just gave me the kid and a bag of toys and books and told me she would be back in a few hours.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why …8 thg 12, 2022 ... But the most viewed subreddit was an old stalwart: r/AmITheAsshole, colloquially know as AITA. It's the place Redditors go to share stories and ...NTA. It's your work and duty as a parent to take care of your daughter, and she was obviously being taken advantage of on that job. Ideally, your daughter would've left the job on her own, standing up for herself, but if she wasn't capable to do so, you absolutely have to do it for her. She's just 15 years.5.1K votes, 1.7K comments. Throwaway, I'm 22 and Kat is 25. My sister 'Kat' married her husband 'Mark' when she was 21. My interactions with Mark…I did this with my child, starting at age 3. We practiced going to "fancy" dinners - no electronics (coloring books, stickers), getting dressed up, having conversations with waitstaff.Add onions and garlic, a bit of thyme, some tomatoes (tinned is fine), mushrooms for umami unless you're a mushroom hater, idk, whatever other veggies you're into, some stock or …In the UK £20,000 is a very healthy budget! Most people I know have spent under £10,000. Ours came in around £9,000 and that was for a Lake District venue on the shores of Coniston (Lake District is expensive) with a boat ride, afternoon meal, evening hog roast, ceilidh band and welcome drinks included.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: The action I took …For instance, the subreddit r/ukraine exploded in popularity, up 76,000 percent according to Reddit, sparked by Russia's invasion of the country and the ensuing war. It …This update is horrible. I am never the Reddit stranger to advise getting a divorce, but I could see how this could forever alter how you view your wife. To basically throw away a live animal that was something you raised for 16 years with no compromise. ... AITA is genuinely pretty insane when it comes to pets, or reddit in general, who knows ...Back in college, my roommate and I were exchanging pranks as part of an underlying feud. He was bringing a girl over that night, so I took a pair of his boxer briefs out of his dresser, and smeared a healthy amount of that natural peanut butter (with the oil and nut chunks) on the ass part, and left it visible on his bedroom floor.29 thg 7, 2021 ... dataset of Reddit posts from a well known subreddit called · “Am I the Asshole?” (AITA), in which users post stories of conflicts in which they ...AITA for refusing to bend the rules on seeing my newborn just for one person (sil) even it the only chance she's has to see him for months So I (34f) gave birth on Christmas Day before my sons birth and to lessen visits. We (my husband 28m) made a list in October and sent it out to everyoneNTA - Let your sister and BIL that you will not be helping them at all but what you can do is any money that you can "spare" put in a trust that can earn interest for your niece to use for college. Let them know it will be in a trust that them as irresponsible parents, they will not be able to touch. 12.Your home, your rules. If racist grandma can't deal with a POC in the home, then she can leave the home and figure out care for herself. Her choice in the matter. You are setting yourself up for your son to lose all respect for you. Complying with grandma's racist demands makes you complicit, OP. 106.Update: AITA family vacation. Original post here. First off, thank you all for the positivity! It's been amazing seeing so much support! We didn't post an update yesterday since it was Valentine's Day so we're posting it today. We had a family meeting at our house on Monday, and it was interesting.8. toasted_dandy • Just an asshole guys, not a piss-fetish troll • 7 mo. ago. Just emphasizing the concept, because the amount of piss fetish troll posts is really …AITA for ruining Christmas over not liking my present. My mom died when I was seven. My dad married a new woman about a year later. My stepmom, who I'll call Dory, had a daughter much older than me who I'll call Kylie. My dad's explanation for why things moved so quickly is because Dory and Kylie were being evicted shortly after my dad started ...Alright, folks, the (much delayed) results announcement for the best of awards is here! Here is the voting post with links to all of the polls and here is the nominations post for anyone interested. The mod awards for the categories have been distributed! Those come with a shiny award and a month of reddit premium.Also, asking for your credit card back and then cancelling it isn't financially abusive (that credit card is basically stolen if he refuses to return it). Credit isn't finances - credit is spending money you don't have - which is what he'd be doing with it. NTA. 54.AITA for refusing to help my parents with their mortgage "Forcing them to lose their home" even though I can easily pay it off? As children, my parents would buy my two brothers whatever they requested regardless of how expensive it was, allowed them to go on trips with them & threw them over the top birthday parties while I didn’t receive any.AITA because I am forcing my parents to choose between two options they loathe. I (F38) have recently gotten a not great medical diagnosis and prognosis. I am at peace with it. So I have sat down with my husband and figured out my will. Obviously he will be receiving most of the estate. He has to take care of himself and our kids.YTA: A child free wedding is a child free wedding. Either go to the wedding or stay home with your baby. Writing on the RSVP that you're bringing your baby is just as big of an AH move as writing in a different meal other than the choices offered. 180.Pay up. Photo: Brian A Jackson, Shutterstock. #6: AITA — Telling my parents to pay me back my college tuition if they want a relationship. This woman's parents paid for all of her three ...Posted originally on March 8 2022. AITA if I press charges against my neighbor for breaking and entering? This is crazy but just happened this past weekend. I (m45) was alone and taking a nap for a couple hours upstairs and came down about 4pm. I walk down and see a man walking out of my front door! Exactly! Suppose it was just because of the stupid trend... He would have cleaned up, and all you would have gotten would have been apologetic messages and a chance to prove it was just momentary insanity and it wouldn't be repeated, and that he would make it up to you.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I gave up working from home because my wife would not respect a closed, locked door with a meeting in progress sign on it.Meghan Moravcik Walbert. It should be clear why the subreddit r/AmItheAsshole is so popular. First of all, there are, indeed, a lot of assholes in this …AITA for not splitting my daughter's college fund. When my (42F) daughter (17F) was 7, we lost her father to an avoidable accident. Due to that and the subsequent settlement, my daughter was able to have a trust fund of sorts that provided for college, grad school if she wanted, and even some left over for whatever life might bring.3 thg 3, 2020 ... A post in Reddit's 'Am I The Asshole' subreddit about a mom who decided to exclude a student with special needs from her daughter's birthday ...The big can of store brand canned tomatoes is usually $1.25, on sale ground meat/sausage is $2 lb, box of pasta is a $1, onion and garlic $1 combined tops. For about $5 can have easily 4 adult sized servings. Dry beans and rice are so cheap. Combine with some cheap meat and you have a whole meal.A lot of posts like this appear in AITA and there’s always a response I keep coming back to: “If you truly loved this person, this minor inconveniences wouldn’t be an issue because your love for said person supersedes it”. Aka, Love > Semantics. YTA, ^ this is why.16. 101037633 Asshole Aficionado [18] • 9 mo. ago. There should be a best Update category. 21. EvilFinch Partassipant [4] • 9 mo. ago. There is a r/BestofRedditorUpdates sub and they also have a Best of 2022. This sub is great since you miss so many updates. 11.AITA for packing my kid an “inappropriate” lunch? I (34F) have a (5M) son who attends preschool. A few hours after I picked him up from school today, I got a phone call from his teacher. She made absolutely no effort to sound kind when she, in an extremely rude and annoyed tone, told me to stop packing my son such “disgusting and ...If you think that scandalous, mean-spirited or downright bizarre final wills are only things you see in crazy movies, then think again. It turns out that real people who want to make a lasting impression with their final wishes die all the ...1.) I called the bride selfish for asking me to wear jewelry that causes a rash on my skin, and also said I wouldn't be a part of the wedding if I had to wear it. 2.) I think I may be the AH for being harsh, calling her selfish, and threatening to not be part of …YTA. If you’re going to sell a valuable family heirloom, you use the money to buy a house, make an investment in your future like going to school or starting a business, or to pay for a life saving medical treatment for yourself or a loved one. You don’t sell a family heirloom to pay for a one day celebration.The venue and family of the bride were appalled because bringing fast food into the reception for multiple people to eat: angered the bride’s family because they most likely paid a good amount of money for the food you publicly replaced (assuming the bride’s family paid; I know this is not necessarily the case).Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I could be the asshole because I said that Annika bullied me in front of our whole family instead of handling it privatelyit's also possible that Kyle was on his best behavior when it was every other week, but now that he was spending all his time with OP, he started to get comfortable enough to misbehave. one of the stories my dad likes to tell about one of us kids (I forget who, it could be anyone) is how he came to pick them up from visiting family and they were super glad to be coming home because "I'm tired ...I(29F) started working at a new company 8 months ago. I was head hunted specifically for the role I have, which gave me enough power to negotiate my contract like I wanted. One of the things I managed to get was a clause that prohibited my employer from contacting me outside wo Jana simply didn't lie when that happened, then left rather than stay and allow it to become a bigger thing than it already was. I do love to think it was a petty revenge a long time in the making, but that's why I'm on reddit. The truth is probably much more tame.A newly postpartum mom (congratulations!) joined the "Am I The A—hole? (AITA?)" subreddit to find out if she was wrong for yelling at her father-in-law who was part of the aforementioned ...A half hour is not enough time to prepare a proper meal unless you're making tacos. You knew your boyfriend didn't want to cook and went for a run and took a shower anyway. He got annoyed/anxious and decided to prepare dinner. He said some the things in the heat of the moment, you took offense.I(29F) started working at a new company 8 months ago. I was head hunted specifically for the role I have, which gave me enough power to negotiate my contract like I wanted. One of the things I managed to get was a clause that prohibited my employer from contacting me outside wo Because site’s default privacy settings expose a lot of your data. Even if you’re using an anonymous user name on Reddit, the site’s default privacy settings expose a lot of your data. Although achieving complete anonymity is impossible, yo...Our son is 22 and our daughter is 26. She bought a house in July. We know that moving into a new home always comes with unexpected costs, right after you've probably depleted most of your funds. So, for Christmas we gave her $4000. Our son we gave a few different gifts totaling somewhere around $800.We always need US overnight time mods. Currently, we could also definitely benefit for mods active during peak "bored at work" hours, i.e. US morning to mid-afternoon. You need to be able to mostly mod from a PC. Mobile mood tools are improving and trickling in, but not quite there yet. You need to be at least 18. NTA. It's your work and duty as a parent to take care of your daughter, and she was obviously being taken advantage of on that job. Ideally, your daughter would've left the job on her own, standing up for herself, but if she wasn't capable to do so, you absolutely have to do it for her. She's just 15 years.Also, asking for your credit card back and then cancelling it isn't financially abusive (that credit card is basically stolen if he refuses to return it). Credit isn't finances - credit is spending money you don't have - which is what he'd be doing with it. NTA. 54.ETA: There was a lunch thief at my old job. They’d never steal frozen prepackaged food, only restaurant leftovers and from home leftovers. I had my leftover pizza stolen and the asshole put my Ziploc back in the fridge. A friend of mine got tired having her lunch stolen and put the top boss there’s name on it. 35. r/AmITheAngel. Join. • 22 days ago. "Wedding cake face smashing" is becoming a new theme in the AITA subs. This story is almost an exact copy of one from a few days ago. Brides leaving their weddings because their husbands insist on smashing cake in their faces despite explicit instructions not to do it.AITA for calling out my parents after they got my bio kid significantly more Christmas gifts than my adopted kids? I (41f) have 3 kids 'Jane' (17f), 'Rachel' (16f) and 'Dave' (14m). Jane is my bio kid, Rachel and Dave are my husband's (46m) but I adopted them a couple of years ago.35. r/AmITheAngel. Join. • 22 days ago. "Wedding cake face smashing" is becoming a new theme in the AITA subs. This story is almost an exact copy of one from a few days ago. Brides leaving their weddings because their husbands insist on smashing cake in their faces despite explicit instructions not to do it.